Earlier today I was asked by a four-time loser in the marriage game if my husband had changed after we got married. Had his behavior altered significantly from his dating persona to his spousal persona? After a brief consideration, I said no.
I thought about that question for the rest of rest of the day. I realized I was wrong.
When we were dating, he gave me roses. Now he gives me rose bushes.
Make of that what you will.
Edited to add: Ahhhh, the irony.
Here Lies Spooky's Marriage
Oct. 31, 1999 - Dec. 31, 2015